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Anal Play: Not Just for Teens, Explore Safely as an Adult
Hey there, fellow anal play enthusiasts! If you’re reading this, then you’re probably already aware that anal play isn’t just for the young and inexperienced. In fact, exploring your buttocks as an adult can be an incredibly pleasurable and fulfilling experience. However, it’s important to remember that safety should always be your top priority.
First things first: communication is key. Before you even think about getting down and dirty, make sure you have a clear and open dialogue with your partner about what you both want and are comfortable with. This is especially important when it comes to anal play, as it can be a more excited experience than other forms of sex.
Now, let’s talk about preparation. Unlike the buttholes of teenagers, adult anuses tend to be a bit tighter (thanks, gravity). This means that taking the time to properly prepare can make all the difference in terms of comfort and pleasure. Start by taking a lustful shower or bath to relax your muscles. You might also want to consider using a mild laxative or doing an enema to clean out your colon (but don’t overdo it – you want to make sure you stay hydrated!).
Once you’re feeling nice and relaxed, it’s time to grab some lubricant. Unlike vaginas, which produce their own natural lubrication, the anus doesn’t have that luxury. That means that lube is a must for any kind of anal play. Look for a water-based lube that is specifically designed for anal sex – these tend to be thicker and longer-lasting than other types of lube. And don’t skimp on the amount – generously apply it to both yourself and your partner before getting started.
Now comes the fun part: actually doing the deed! When it comes to anal play, slow and steady wins the race. Start by gently massaging the outside of the anus with your fingers or a toy (make sure it has a flared base so it doesn’t get lost up there!). Once you feel comfortable, gradually start inserting your fingers or toy deeper into the anus. Remember to breathe deeply and relax your muscles as much as possible – this will make insertion much easier (and less painful).
When it comes to positions for anal play, there are plenty of options depending on what feels most comfortable for you and your partner. Doggy style is always a classic choice (and allows for easy access), but don’t be afraid to get creative! Just remember that communication is key – if something doesn’t feel right or if you need to take a break, always speak up!
And finally: safety precautions! Make sure any toys or objects being inserted into the anus are clean (you might want to consider using condoms on them as well). And if you do experience any pain or discomfort during or after anal play, don’t hesitate to seek medical attention – bleeding or severe pain could be signs of injury or infection.
So there you have it – everything you need to know about exploring anal play as an adult (and why teens shouldn’t be having sex either way!) Remember: communication is key; preparation makes everything easier; take things slow; get creative with positions; use plenty of lube; practice safe sex habits; listen carefully if something goes wrong – seek medical attention immediately! Happy playing friends 🙂
